She’s the text messages unanswered that keep your palm sweaty. You want to believe you can be the guy to change her.Clients often come to me having had a string of short-lived romances and starting the next one almost immediately after the end of the previous one.Others have been single for a while and worry that their thoughtful considerate approach might be interpreted as disinterest.It’s quite common in the dating arena for men to play it cool and women to play hard to get.
She’s the kind gesture you have never preformed for another woman.
I’d want to grab the poor guy by his lapels or messenger bag and say: The bitch doesn’t really love chili dogs that much – no one loves chili dogs that much!
And the Cool Girls are even more pathetic: They’re not even pretending to be the woman they want to be, they’re pretending to be the woman a man wants them to be.
It is important not to answer immediately every time, as this can make you look like a convenience not a catch, but you don’t want to keep him or her waiting too often as this can be misconstrued as disinterest.
Rather than trying to keep his interest by playing hard to get, ditch this waiting game and cultivate a genuinely varied and busy life.